Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Thank you...

I owe so many people a HUGE thank you...


Thank you for:
*praying
*coming to visit Haley (& me!) in the hospital
*all the toys, balloons, magazines, movies, food, and frappacinos
*reassuring me that my little girl will be okay
*helping with Drew and the boys (my favorite nephews!) that I baby-sit
*picking up the house before I got home
*calling to check on everyone
*helping me figure out what Haley can/can't eat
*sitting with us
*offering to do anything
*getting my mind off this stupid diet (if only for a short minute)
*keeping an eye on her when I'm not around and calling (or emailing) to keep me posted

I'm sure I left something out that I'm thankful for...

I appreciate everything so much! I'm so happy to know what is wrong with Haley once again... so I don't have to be mad at the doctors for that!

I only wish...
*she would be better instantly
*she wasn't in pain
*she didn't have to be on this diet
*her belly wasn't bloated
*her self-confidence wasn't down
*we never had to deal with this again

I've been pretty emotional the last couple of days... although I've really tried to hold it together. It was hard (& amusing) to admit to a few of you what I did yesterday! Keep praying and I'll keep you posted.

Haley is amazing! When I lose it... she is still holding it together! She is so smart and learning so fast about what is now going on. She wanted to go to school less than 24 hours after getting out of the hospital so I let her go. She made it just under 3 hours! She wanted to go again today so I let her. Mrs. Potter said Haley complained her belly was hurting but she was hungry. Thank you Mrs. Potter!!! for buying snacks to keep at your desk that Haley eat!!! I'm still waiting to hear how she is after lunch. That is all I have for now...

We need a vacation... only 3 more days until we head south bound!

Monday, March 22, 2010

Haley...

Rewind 3 weeks ago... Haley threw up at school, but told the school nurse she thought she ate too much at lunch...

Over the past 3 weeks I have called the Dr. NUMBEROUS times... they just wanted to add a new medicine or change the ones she was already taking. We spent St. Patty's Day at the Imaging Center having an x-ray and some blood work and everything came out perfect! Haley was not perfect... she was MISERABLE! This past Friday... I had hit a breaking point and kinda got mad at the nurses (because the doctor wasn't in...) and told them something was wrong with Haley and I wanted her to be seen immediately. Finally... we were told to go to St. Vincent ER by her Ped. GI doctor and they team would do a work-up and called Dr. M with the results (no... she didn't meet us at the hospital!). Thank you to our RN Carla... loved her! (found out they just built a house of some land Lowder's used to farm and came by the morning after the tornado to help!) Anyway, the CT showed an ileus. They couldn't tell us why she had it or what it was. Haley was admitted to the hospital about 1 am. I headed home to pack a bag or 2 and grab the things Haley requested. Justin stayed while they moved her to her room and until I could get back... it was about 2:30 am. She was so miserable she ended up having Morphine!

Saturday: I can't remember anything from Saturday... I know we had lots of family come visit, but I still had no answers. People were questioning me for taking Haley to the hospital and doubting the hosptial staff. I was so mad! How dare you do that in front of my kid!? (Sorry...) Haley still wasn't allow to eat! Poor kid was hooked up to all kinds of lines... steriods, fluids, antibiotics, etc... We were also told that we'd probably have to follow a new diet... Low Residue!

Sunday: Dr. M came to the hospital and did a scope and took some more labs on Haley about 8:30 am... once again everything came back normal. Haley was not feeling well and still hadn't been allowed to eat. More family visited... I hit a wall and was an emotional wreck. I have now been in the hospital with Haley since Friday and know nothing! I was mad, tired and fed up! Finally Dr. M said she wanted Haley to do a barium follow through and radiology was willing to do it on Sunday about 11. Well, because she hadn't had a bowel movement... they couldn't do it. 5 doses of miralax and hours went by and still no luck. We ended up having to give her a suppository. Time went by again and she finally was able to go to the bathroom. INSTANT RELIEF! She was like a different kid! However, the nurses informed us it was too late and we couldn't do the barium until in the morning... Haley still couldnt' eat and she was grouchy and just wanted to go home. She was starving! I felt awful that I couldn't do anything to help her. We were both exhausted! LOVE our nurses (Amy and Wendey) for convincing radiology to do the test on Sunday night... good thing they had a TV for Amy, Ali, Justin and me to watch the Purdue game while also playing with Haley! She is such a trooper! The test was finished and the radiologist had mentioned, "something abnormal!" My thought... "Yeah... they found something... I hope it is easy to fix!" After that... Haley was able to eat! New Diet... what can I get her to eat... McDonald's burger plain! She was thrilled! By 10 pm we still didn't have any results so we had to stay another night.

Monday: Haley wasn't hooked up to any IVs all night so we both slept pretty good. We got results... a 3 cm segment between the small and large intestines ... thickening of the intestinal wall / inflammation. That caused the ileus from Friday night. (The brain basically tells the bowels to stop movement because "something" is going on down the line.) I had an answer that completely made sense to me and that I could explain to others.

1:00 pm - we are outta there... Haley and I headed home!

Treatment: Low Residue Diet, no Lactose, 8 medicines... 3 of which she is used to taking... 5 new ones! The intestines should heal. This will most likely happen again however now we know what to look for.

Cause: a virus... Haley may not be sick (cough, fever, etc...) but the smallest virus will attack a Crohn's patients intestional tract. Since items weren't moving... her little belly swelled up with all kinds of gas, air and fluids causing major cramps and discomfort!


Defining Ileus:

Intestinal obstruction is a partial or complete blockage of the bowel that results in the failure of the intestinal contents to pass through.

Symptoms:

Abdominal distention
Abdominal fullness, gaseous
Abdominal pain and cramping
Breath odor
Constipation
Diarrhea
Vomiting

Hopefully this helps explain a little of what we've gone through this weekend!

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Hard work...
















*It takes hard work and is always a work in progress, but The Love Dare works! I haven't updated in awhile, but it is going good.

*Here are a few more of Ty's 3 month pictures. He is such a cutie-pie!

*ONLY 10 more days until we are beach bound! I am so excited to get away... I'm really dreading the drive though. Praying for GREAT weather!

*The job search is still in the works. No phone call or interview yet, but I'm still waiting and optimistic!

*I LOVE SPRING! I can't wait for summer!

Friday, March 5, 2010

Day FOUR...

Love is Thoughtful...

Love teaches you how to meet in the middle, to respect and appreciate how your spouse uniquely thinks. This lesson really struck me... Men do not read between the lines. I get upset that he has no clue what is wrong! Men state issues without thinking... I get upset that he is being so blunt about issues. I'm really working on this one!

DARE: Call your spouse and have no agenda other than asking how they are doing and if there is anything you could do for them...

Mission completed!
**How precious also are your thoughs to me... How vast is the sum of them! If I should count them, they would outnumber the sand. (Psalm 139:17-18)**

Ty is 3 months...
















Enjoy a few photos of Ty...





I can't believe he is 3 months old...

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Day THREE...

Love is not Selfish...

Why do we have such low standards for ourselves but high expections for our mate... We are all selfish! If you do even a good thing to deceitfully manipulate your spouse... you are still being selfish. **Meaning... I can't buy him something that I really want!**

DARE: Buy your spouse something that says, "I was thinking of you today."

I bought Justin a card and tanning package because he made a comment last week about wanting to go and I gave him a hard time about it. I tan, so why can't he... I'm so nice to him... sometimes! Drew and Justin are not home yet, so we'll see if I get anything... I'll post that tomorrow.

"Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves" (Philippians 2:3)

By the way... he did pick up all the toys out of the living room last night!

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Day Two...

Love is Kind... Patience avoids a problem and kindness creates a blessing.

Dare: In addition to saying nothing negative to your spouse again today, do at least one unexpected gesture as an act of kindness...

**Being the sweet wife I am... I clean off the work bench and cleaned up Justin's closet!**
He actually noticed and thanked me! I'm waiting to see what he does to help me out today because my list is long... haha!

**Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you**

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Left Hanging...

I'm still working on both my missions (and will not give up!)...

1. I finished my resume, cover letter and received some really nice letter of recommendations. Those have been mailed in... Yesterday was the cut off so hopefully I will hear something in the next few days about an interview. I'm very excited and optimistic.

2. No marriage is perfect and everyone knows that a relationship take work so... Justin and I started The Love Dare. It goes along with the movie FIREPROOF.

Day ONE: Love is Patient
* Words often reflect the condition of our heart. Today... say nothing negative to your spouse at all. If the temptation arises, choose not to say anything.

"We have talked on and off throughout the day and things have been good."

I hope this will help me blog more. I would love to update you everyday on our challenge through this book for the next 40 days or so. You may read the ups and downs... but that is what this is all about.

"Everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger" (James 1:19)
**On a totally different note... I wish the UPS man would get here soon because they didn't come yesterday!**